Sunday, August 16, 2009

Friendship Day

If you’re thinking I might be giving a lecture again… just like I gave on life and optimism (in my last blog entry) and this time on “Friendship Day”, well then you’re WRONG, my friend.
Even though I got a lot of wishes from friends, everywhere in Facebook and also through SMS and calls, I had a totally horrible day! -_- Yeah now you got it right; I’m just gonna complain about how HORRIBLE my day was. Keep reading cause it might give you a good laugh or if you’re good-hearted (A) then it might make you feel bad as well.

Anyway, many friends wished me “Happy Friendship Day” but yet my day wasn’t a happy one. :( Getting all the sweet messages at midnight, I went to sleep. Waking up, I had to see how rude my brother can be. -_- He woke me up forcefully! It’s my vacation, and I cant even sleep well till 2 pm. That’s so unfair! Anyway, going back to the topic. I brushed my teeth and wondered how I was gonna spend my day. We friends didn’t have any plan AT ALL and I was SO bored at home! I came on facebook to get rid of my boredom and loneliness. But instead, I started feeling worse. I saw all those status updates, for example, “having sooo much fun with friends!! :D”, “omg! Best friendship Day everrrr!!! :D” and I felt soo ughhh! :@

Anyway, my friends were out of Dhaka or busy doing other stuff and I didn’t feel like calling them up cause I thought I shouldn’t bother them.
I was like… bored to death! I went to watch television but nothing good was being shown on TV.

So instead I planned to go for shopping with my Mom. I thought shopping would make me feel all happy and :D!! And maybe after that, eat good at Pizza Hut or KFC! (This was my Mother’s plan <<) I became ready like in 5 minutes (whereas I always take around 25 minutes to get ready, lol) and my Mom and I went for shopping! Hurray!! I couldn’t buy anything good and pretty, cause all I could see is teenagers hanging out :( and having a good laugh and LOADS of fun! And it felt quite… awkward I would say, to actually hang out with my MOTHER on FRIENDSHIP day! I felt like going back home right then but my Mom wouldn’t let me. Of course I didnt tell her why I wanted to go back home and she thought maybe cause she wasn’t yet buying me anything “good and pretty”. I couldn’t keep my eyes on clothes and cute accessories… all that were visible in my eyes were me having fun with my friends. Man… I was day-dreaming. Lol. And this also made me feel like going to school. Well my Mom bought me stuff, and finally I was on my way home! That made me feel a l’il better. :) Oh gosh! Then my Mom decided to take me to Pizza Hut … cause I looked sad. O_O Man, I didn’t wanna go! It would have been my worst time if I went to PH. There I could get to see more of “teenage fun on Friendship Day” and what if I started crying out there? :O omg! No way! :P Somehow, I convinced my mother to directly go back home and she actually listened to me! (woah! prolly for the 1st time in life! just kidding, lol). And the day almost ended like that. Later, I went online to chat with my friends and that made me feel alright again. :) After all, Friendship Day was going to be over. :P And I’m happy nobody has uploaded any pictures of friendship day YET on facebook. :P lol Oh well, its already soooo long! :O and don’t worry, I wont write longer… cause I’m done already. Lol.

Whats the word again? L-L-L-I-F-E?

LIVE[life] LAUGH[lots] LOVE[forever]
Yeah, that's my motto. ;)
What's life, anyway? I believe, life doesn't have any meaning on its own. Different people see life in different ways and people have different views on life. And they define it in that way. So yeah, “Life” is what YOU define it as. :)
See, many people think life is something you should be serious with and that you should never play or have fun while you live.
Dude, YOU have the right to do whatever in your life. Yeah cuz it’s yours!

You never know what’s coming up. Whatever happens, happens. Yeah, for good. You can always think about it like that. But if you can’t be optimistic, please try to be a l’il at least! Then, if YOU have done something wrong in your life, you can blame yourself and get over with it. Cuz you know it’s your fault and you can’t blame yourself forever. By making mistakes, you get to know what’s right and what’s wrong, anyway.

Well, just get over it when you’ve done something wrong and make a promise that you’ll never do it again. That way, it’s at least better than losing to live some precious time of your life.

Then why be so serious? Bad times are gonna be there in your life just like the good times.
We wake up wondering what might happen next.
Yea sometimes it feels like we won't make it through,
but the hard times pass, like the good ones do.

Nobody stopped you to hope for the best, dude.
Life is balanced almost for all. If life’s cruel to you, maybe cuz you’re making the same mistakes in your life over and over again. In that case, relax and take it easy. Have a cup of coffee and THINK where you’re doing wrong. Or maybe Allah has put you to the test. :) He wants to see how good your patience, abilities and conscience are. If you are confident that your actions and beliefs are right then have no worries. :D Allah will give you the right result.

There’s no harm in laughing a lot, are there any? Oh, I never heard of it if there is. :P But wait, don’t laugh when nothing’s funny. You know, people might think you’re …well, mad. But who cares, right? :D You are having fun, and that’s what matters to you and your friends and family.

And well, what do I say about “love”? I think you know about it better than me. To me, love is for my family and friends. After all, they mean the world to me!
But whomever you love, love them with all your heart. InshaAllah (i.e, if Allah wishes) you’ll get the same love back like I get from MY friends and family. :D

Anyway, that’s all I can write at the moment. I’m just too sleepy to write further and it’s
1:30 am and well, I know I can just drink a cup of coffee and keep writing… but I just LOVE sleeping. Haha, yeah I’m a sleep-a-holic (I know that isn’t a word). I hope I didn’t bore you with my lecture’ish words though. And just remember you gotta be optimistic in all stages of your life.
Optimism is the best road to Success.

[by the way, i wrote this ages ago and it was night then :P]

Umm, what? o.O

If you’re wondering what ENT means, let me assure you, it’s not Ear, Nose and Throat. *laughs* No way!

I was just thinking what I can give as the title of my blog and then ENT came to my mind. Wanna know why? Basically, I’m gonna share my experiences and thoughts with you guys through my blog and so I came up with this title, “My ENT”. So by now, I guess you already know what ENT means. It means “Experiences N Thoughts”. And since they are gonna be mine, I named my blog as “My ENT”. Awesome, right? Haha, I know.